What are the effects of having unprotected sex?
Published 13 Mar 2017
Some people don’t realise that everyone doesn’t portray sex the same way. To make logical choices regarding sex is extremely important. If the choices made aren’t logical, having unprotected sexual intercourse could result in unwanted pregnancy, STD’s such as herpes, pubic lice, HIV, and hurt feelings. One of the major risks of having unprotected sex is pregnancy. Pregnancy for teens, for instance, is their biggest fear of having sex as they rarely use contraceptives. There are 13 000 teen pregnancies every year. Out of all of these pregnancies, 50% choose abortion, 20% choose single parenting, 15% eliminate marriage, and 12-13% choose to get married. Even thought there are so many teen pregnancies per year, it has decreased by half since the 1970s. Teen pregnancies can result in haemorrhage (hard to control bleeding), damaged cervix, preterm birth, and/or infertility (So, Wong, and DeLeon 457). Out of all of these possibilities, these are only the physical complications. Psychological problems from sex are guilt and depression. After they have sex they can feel guilty for being or making their partner pregnant. Also, depression can make you feel bad about yourself, especially if you become sexually attracted to someone and they leave you.
Some of the consequences for having a baby in your teens are that once the baby has been born, the father it could be asked to pay an amount for the baby for the rest of their life. This could seriously damage their own life, without having enough money to have another child of their own.
Physical Risks & Consequences – STD’s
Sex is never 100% safe. There are many different methods of minimising pregnancy; the ‘pill’, Depo Provera (an injection which stops pregnancy for three months), the emergency contraception pill, and condoms. Condoms are not 100% safe. Even though there is a chance of them slipping or breaking, they are still the best way to prevent pregnancy without the use of drugs (McKay 183).There is no such thing as safe sex. Abstinence from sex is the only way to be 100% safe.
Along with the risk of pregnancy, there is always the fear of contracting a sexually transmitted disease/infection. Not all STD’s or STI’s are fatal, some cause mild genital irritation like pubic lice (crabs), but some can’t be cured, for example herpes, and they will affect your life. The only way to prevent contracting is to be abstinent from sex, this means that you don’t partake in any sexual intercourse.
The most common disease is genital herpes/warts. For a statistic, 1 in 7 people have this terrible disease. They are simply warts, but on your genitals (The News and Observer B7). The genitals are not the only place people have herpes. Another area that is common for herpes is around the mouth. This is a result of unprotected oral sex. Herpes are impossible to eradicate, which makes them one on the worst, yet most common sexually transmitted disease. Besides, one of the most feared, and fatal STD is HIV. People with HIV can develop AIDS (Acquired Immune Deficiency Syndrome) related illnesses and die, because it is a fatal disease.
Emotions & Relationships
As well as having to worry about pregnancy and STD’s from the result of unprotected sex, emotions are also heavily involved. As mentioned before, the media has a view of sex being the primary reason for a relationship, and exploit it in that way. Teen’s relationships are mostly based on emotions; how they feel about the person. A relationship is all about trust, and partners need to communicate on how they feel about sex. If they both choose to stay abstinent, it will be more special for them if they continue to get married.
However, other relationships, sex-based relationships, do not last. Their primary reason is to have sex and no more feelings involved. These do not last very long and usually result in breaking up. The most important component of a healthy relationship is trust. Other components that include compatibility, the couple needs to get along. They should have the same views on sex. If one person wants to stay abstinent but the other wants to have sex, they most likely will not get along very well. To care for their partner is another major part of a relationship. The two people need to have emotional feelings for each other in order for a relationship to work.
Self-esteem plays a major role in a relationship. If someone becomes emotionally attached to someone, and the relationship doesn’t work, their self-esteem will fall making them not as confident for their next relationship. This can result in depression, making them extremely sad, which can result into much more serious consequences. Guilt also can harm people. If they feel guilty for something they caused in a relationship, they might not be able to forgive themselves for a long period of time, which can also lead to greater difficulties in life.
To make logical choices regarding sex is extremely important. If the choices made aren’t logical, the results could be disastrous. Having unprotected sexual intercourse could lead to disasters like unwanted pregnancy, STD, etc. I believe that people should wait until they are mature enough to make correct and informed decisions about their sexual relationships.
- Associated Press. “Few Worry About STDs, Poll Finds.” The News and Observer. 2004, April 11.
- So, Dominicus W, Wong, Frank Y., DeLeon, Jordana M. “Sex, HIV Risks, and Substance Use Among Asian American College Students.” AIDS Education and Prevention. Oct 2005.Vol.17, Iss. 5.
- McKay, Alexander. “Sex Research Update.” The Canadian Journal of Human Sexuality. Fall 2003.Vol.12, Iss. 3.